Eulogy Examples
Complete, speakable tributes — with the structure that makes them work.
The best eulogies are small: a bowl, a bakkie, a kitchen, a bicycle that mostly had brakes. Each page below holds one complete tribute written to be spoken — borrow the shape, the lines, whatever helps — plus the structure underneath and advice for the delivery itself.
The five-part shape almost every good eulogy shares
- The opening line that is entirely them — a habit, a rule, a saying.
- One small story, told fully. Details are the resurrection.
- What the story proves — the value they lived, in one sentence.
- The wider life — briefly: the years, the work, the showing up.
- Speaking to them directly at the end. The hardest part, and the one nobody forgets.
Common questions
How long should a eulogy be?+
Two to three minutes spoken — roughly 350–450 words. Every example here is written to that length because it is what a grieving speaker can deliver and a full room can hold.
What's the difference between a eulogy and an obituary?+
The obituary is the life's facts, usually printed in the programme and often read aloud; the eulogy is the personal tribute — stories and meaning, spoken from the heart.
What makes a eulogy good?+
One or two small, true stories told in detail. "She glued the broken bowl and used it for twenty years" outlives any list of virtues — specificity is how the room sees them again.